I am helping a friend sell her wares at a vendor fair today. Yay! I get to leave the house AND talk to people. I won’t have to talk to my dogs all day. This particular friend can talk a LOT, but that’s okay. I’ll get out of the house and be around people. Kind of sad when something like this makes my day. She may need help on saturday too….
Not so many depressing thoughts running around in my head right now. Those are the ones that make me question my sanity. Those are the ones I *need* to write down and get out of my head. But I find if I stop writing because my thoughts are fine, then I stop writing for a long time. I need to keep writing. I need to keep this journal. It is my only outlet for *me*.
I’ve been married a long time. 30+ years now. We were married young, 21 and 20. We had only known each other 9 months before we tied the knot. No, no pregnancy. Just madly in love and I needed to get out of my parents house. We grew up with each other in a sense then.
I look back and see how much I have changed. Things I have given up. I wonder how much I have lost myself. Does it matter now that I am older? Is there any sense in trying to get back the things I let go? Nothing is major, but things I stopped doing because Joe didn’t like to…..or Joe made fun of me for doing it….so I just let things go and moved on. Now I wonder if I will regret that. Or did I do the right thing for my marriage? *sigh* Those are the thoughts rattling around in my head right now. When I am alone (which is most always) and wondering what to do to pass the time….I don’t like getting older.